The underlying ‘disease’ of our current society… What happens when we first wake in the morning? Do we leap out of bed, grab a quick shower; watch the latest doom and gloom on TV as we hurriedly drink a coffee tying our shoes, send a quick text message, bang on the teenagers door as we […]
Albert’s Compass
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In 1883, a father gave his ill son Albert a compass to play with while he was sick in bed. The father thought nothing more of it as he watched the boy move the compass this way and that. For him it was just another boy playing with a compass – like thousands of boys […]
Too Stressed To Have Fun?
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Stresss… we all know Stress is a two way street. On one hand we know that without stress we actually remove our natural ability to grow. If we stay comfortable then we always stay within our natural comfort zones and stagnate as evolving human beings. However, on the other hand, if we get too much […]
How Is Your Relationship?
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Everything we experience as beings here on the physical plane… is subject to change…. The one thing we can rely on.. is change… The man / woman you met two years ago or twenty two years ago is not the same person you met and fell in love with…. The beautiful thing about that is… […]
What Is Your Preferred Outcome?
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It is only by chance that you arrive at your destination, if you’re not quite sure where you are going! So many of us blunder through our lives in the hopes that things will work out. When we’re young and carefree, this seems to work for us… as often there are our caregivers, giving direction… […]
What Are You Focusing On?
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There is an extremely useful and well used strategy of highly successful people.. its called Reframing. Reframing is about changing perception by understanding something in another way. (Ref: Bandler and Grinder explained in the following manner:) What reframing does is to say, Look, this external thing occurs and it elicits this response in you, so […]
Creating Trust in Your Relationship
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Relationship communication can be tricky. Relationships involve people, people are tricky! We are all unique human beings. Every one of us has been brought up in a unique environment known as a family that is composed of other unique individuals. When we arrive in this world, we find ourselves in the care of human beings […]
